Wednesday 20 July 2011

A new baby nursing.., how does the previously nursed toddler respond?

A new baby nursing.., how does the previously nursed toddler respond?

I stopped to nurse my daughter with 20 months 5 . I weiß, that she/it still remembers, because she/it still opens her/its/their mouth in the fun, and comes to me, while laughs, if she/it sees my breasts, while changed ich\'m.
IchIch is pregnant and due in the summer, and I am concerned that she/it won\'t be to keenly on the idea of me, that a new baby nurses.
Was everyone in a similar situation ever? How did the toddler respond? Do you have any advice?

from Jill P

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SieSie is likely, a little jealous, and not only from nursing, to be, but from the whole attention, that a new baby gets. She/it probably is to it, you develop a small bi for itselfßchen back and starts this is to be dealt like a baby, because she/it thinks, as your attention is gotten. Everything is this for normal, her/its/their role in the family is at the moment "the baby" and if somebody will feel new receptions her/its/their place, that she/it lost a little one.

The best way to avert all this is a conversation with her to be had over her/its/their new role as a "big sister." You/they können some books of your local library, to help the discussion, gets, or only wings it. You/they should thereover with her speaks like "big girls" is different as babies, babies need breast milk, big girls and all types of other matters, and so on, and you help something for matters, that big sisters do, mommy, you teach the baby new abilities and so on. burden all ways in the es\'s about a großes girls and a brand you climax, to certainly be all fun matters, she/it can make better that a baby doesn\'t can. Glück!
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beside cathrl69-Bergwerk, that is reacted by it, to walk round with her/its/their dolly, was on her/its/their Tshirt. "Baby has breakfast.":)

I am normally the last, to propose, to be prudish, but I wonder when you didn\'t change before her/its/their for a few months whether she/it simply would forget her silence. She/it becomes for eagerness likely anywayüchtig is, but if "those are, my breasts" are something, about which she/it didn\'t think in several monthsthen, that is at least no question maybe.

from MariVi, you will often ask to work again as a nurse, and that is at the the most frequently given advice her/it/them, to leave, because they will the most probably forget, as sucking is. She/it only wants to know, thereß you she/it also still loves, and you also still would nurse her/it/them. As soon as she/it sees, thereß you becomes, sie\'ll most probably loses you interest.

Or maybe she/it doesn\'t ask, but if she/it does, you leave her/it/them, and this will probably be the end of it. If you, \'t, put on her/it/them is rejected f for itselfühlen / replaced, and so on

I also know, that a mommy was born, who worked her/its/their Sohnesrecht as a nurse until at the moment the second, and she/it believed that she/it would become quiet at the same time in two, but as the second was carried, the first disaccustomed 2 1/2 years old with approximately, and said that it now was for his/its small brother,...

Everything depends on your child\'s personality and if they are jealous, or not.

Luck!

through eats you My the oldest, wanted to try some again and wouldnt eased, so that I left her/it/them,... and she/it went be "this INDELICATELY!" and never disturbed me again over it, lol,

If you turn it into any big nature, that only babies can do, she/it will become jealous, but if you, you, trade it, no big deal is and you let her/it/them even try some if she/it asks, then she/it most probably accustomed to it and it accustomed is you a big deal cause, that you/they don\'t make to a deal over it!

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from Lesley, 29, UNITED KINGDOM my sister after law had be this problem, as she/it nursed her/its/their new baby, her/its/their toddler like "Yum Yum", that expects some, she/it joked that she/it in the course of time with times, but she/it simply told him/it no and explained, that he/it was too old, and he/it drank a question milk of a cup/bottle and him/it wasnt,

through michalka... i didn\'t have this problem, but what comes to me, is your first child being jealously. there is still, many time till summer chances are, she/it is forgotten. only erkleras you her/it/them, that this boobies/milk is for the baby.

by two, boys are a joy! Through summertime she/it, that are won, \'t-Sorge. my son became entw one year before his/its brotheröhnt, and he/it could worry less. He/it works 1/2 years long as a nurse almost 2. Das\'s only like small becomes gefüttert, and he/it now is one " big boy", as he/it says,

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